You should choose your companion wisely
In general more than 60 percent of our lifetime is married life. After marriage you will be no more under the lap of your mom and dad. If your wife/husband is good, you will be happy for greater part of your life time. If she/he is not good, you will be sad till the end of your life. Good or bad, well or ill,you will live together with your wife/husband till the end of your life. So choosing a good companion for life is very important.
Firstly choose the person with sweet heart
Sweet heart is the most important quality of a life companion. Good heart is better than the costliest pearls and golds. If your wife/husband is a good hearted person, you are already in heaven. If the heart of your wife/husband is good everything will be ok. You will live in peace and happiness. You will never shed a drop of tear, you will never get a heartache. Your children will become good persons. If the heart of your wife/husband is not good,you will face a midway crisis. Sometimes the husband dominates Sometimes the wife dominates. All evils and sorrows come from bad heart.
Girls! Your husband may be handsome, smart and rich but if his heart is not good all the other things are useless. If he does not love you, there is no happiness for you at all. So before you marry, read the heart and choose the man who has the best heart. He will love you the most. He will treat you as a wife. A man who has a good heart will not give you gold but he will give you what you need.
Boys! Your wife may be beautiful, smart and rich but if her heart is not good all her beauty, smartness and richness are useless. If she does not respect you, there is no happiness at all for you. Remember ” A good wife makes her husband smile but a bad wife makes her husband a philosopher”. So choose a woman who has the best heart. She will respect you the most. She will treat you as a husband.
Secondly, choose a wise person
Wisdom is the second most important quality of a life companion. Remember ” The wise build up the house but the fool pull down the house”. A wise wife/ husband will not create a problem in the family. A wise man/woman will make things right. He/she will do the right thing at the right time, he/she will take the right decision, he/she will do his/her responsibilities and he/she will love peace and unity in the family. If you and your wife/husband are wise, your family will grow up and life will be easy and wonderful. But know that some people are good at speech but not wise, some are not good at speech but wise. Some have high degree in education but not wise, some have no degree in education but wise. So choose a wise man/woman as your spouse.
Good heart and wisdom go together mostly.
No one is perfect
There are some other qualities a wife/a husband requires for better life. They are beauty, handsomeness, smartness, cleanliness, education, sociability, richness, morality, good health etc. But a person who possesses all these qualities can not be found on the earth. No one is perfect. Everybody has a defect and a weakness
So before you come to marriage, choose your life companion wisely. Choose the right person. First look at the heart and the head. Choose the person who has sweet heart and wisdom. She/ he will treat you as a wife/ husband, she/ he will love you and respect you and you will live happily till the end of life.